Monday, June 28, 2010

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Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

5 - the Observer

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you chose BZ - your Enneagram type is FIVE (aka "The Thinker").



"I need to understand the world"



Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful.


How to Get Along with Me

• Be independent, not clingy.

• Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.

• I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.

• Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable.

• Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity.

• If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.

• don't come on like a bulldozer.

• Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.



What I Like About Being a FIVE

• standing back and viewing life objectively

• coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects

• my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure

• not being caught up in material possessions and status

• being calm in a crisis



What's Hard About Being a FIVE

• being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world

• feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all

• being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be

• watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally



FIVEs as Children Often

• spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on

• have a few special friends rather than many

• are very bright and curious and do well in school

• have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers

• watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information

• assume a poker face in order not to look afraid

• are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict

• feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected



FIVEs as Parents

• are often kind, perceptive, and devoted

• are sometimes authoritarian and demanding

• may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate

• may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele, The Enneagram Made Easy. Discover the 9 Types of People.

Harper: San Francisco, 1994, 161 pages



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Friday, June 18, 2010

scream

 i had an appointment with my psychologist yesterday, she advised me to act like i'm somebody else .
i can feel the anxiety taking over me, the only thing i can think about is tomorrow and how much i don't want to be there, to sit quietly and wait for my turn to sing in front of people.

Friday, June 4, 2010

hello tartu

i was in tartu today for 8 hours, it was quite nice to be in a city where there are so many stores to visit. I was in a cafe but the food wasn't good at all. Then i walked around and around and then i finally saw something interesting , a nice skirt ( the fashion trends are ridiculously freaky) , then i was looking for the nerdy-looking glasses but unfortunately didn't find them.i went to see shrek ,mhm ... it was ok and it did had a point but i would've enjoyed the horror movie more (the horrific and heart sickening possibilities are just feeding my imagination) . After the movie, i played cards with   jane and then we had to go but we made a stop near the hamburger stand, the burger was almost good but there was too much cheese (the noticeable and smellable melted cheese makes me sick), about 15 minutes after i ate the burger i wanted to throw up but i was in a moving car , i really didn't want to interrupt the driving home mission.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

this isn't happening

I went to school at 10 am and it was quite nice , i compleated my little handwork ,it took only about 3 hours.
 After that i went on a long walk with jane ,we spent some time near the bridge but unfortunately there were  too many midges around us, so we decided to go further but the area was unknown for me, so i started panicing soon.
When we were lost we realised that there was a stalker and he didn't go away .The follower was very disgusting ( he was marking trees with his pee). I screamed at him but he stayed behind us.So ,after kilometres of paranoia , i had many theories that included murders and mythical creatures, i was upset because there were many pugs near me , i hate pugs.
 When we found our way back to the town that so much bored me ,i was quite pleased.After hours of stalking THE DOG stoped following us and we walked on to a cafe, the food was good and soon we ended up in the library , that's where i'm writing this letter from.